This how Good wife behave

DO WE STILL HAVE WOMEN LIKE HER?

Phone Rings
(Wife Picks up)

Wife: Hello Atanda mi .

Husband: Yes Wuraola mi, get ready we going out today.

Wife: Hmm where exactly are we going? Besides am kind of busy today.

Husband: Stop whatever you are doing and prepare yourself for our special date.

Wife: Alright Ife mi.

Husband: Sharp, I will be there in 30 minutes time.

Wife: Ok, bye.

Husband: Cool(he dropped the call)
...............
In 30 minutes time he arrived at home as per promise.

Husband: Anybody home??? (Knock! Knock!).

Wife: (peeps through the window) Ade Ori Okin mi (come in).

Husband: Baby what's wrong with you? You haven't prepared yourself yet?

Wife: Of course, not until you tell me where exactly you are planning on taking me.

Husband: What's the date today?

Wife: 30th of January.

Husband: Great! Today is my pay day besides I got a salary increment, so I want to go and spoil you big time. Now hurry up go and take a quick bath.

Wife: No my love, am going nowhere with you.

Husband: What does that suppose to mean?

Wife: My love, Ade Ori Okin mi ti ki se ti eye keye, Atanda mi.. I know you love me, but that
shouldn't be reason for you to be spending extravagantly on me.

Husband: what is wrong with that? You are my woman,my first love,mother my children and I have all the right to spoil you rotten.

Wife: My love, last time I checked your young brother was chased from school because of unpaid balance. You know you are the only one your family depends on. That house your mother lives in, is in a dilapidated state and it needs to be
renovated.

Husband: (listening attentively)

Wife: Instead of spoiling me, use your salary to support those that entirely depend on you for their well being. To me those people comes first, moreover I don't love you because of your money, I love you for who you are.

Husband: But bae..........

Wife: (cuts in) But bae nothing, now hurry up and go and pay the school fees for your brother and help other in serious need as much as your salary can support. If they will be any amount remaining, you can come and share it
with me. I see a husband in you not a bank account.

Husband: (tears drop) What more can I ask from God? He has blessed me with a wonderful woman.I Love you so so much my wife, you are one in a million. I see a  true and genuine wife in you not a slut or the so called Slay Queens of our generation.

Wife: I love you too my husband. Ife mi.. Ade Ori Okin mi.. Olowo Ori mi...

Husband: Come here(he spread his arms for the hug)They shared a warmth hug...and the Husband sat with the wife to plan how they could spend the money wisely in an effort to help those in genuine need of their help.

Now That's Real Love

The Question is:

DO SUCH WIVES STILL EXIST IN THIS WORLD?.. I leave the men to confirm while we ladies have a rethink...

If you are a woman reading this message,how do you evaluate yourself? What are you doing about becoming a better wife that your husband will constantly desire to consult from even in serious decision making.

This how Good wife behave

Adewale Saturday, 16 June 2018

Be Patient in Judgement

A couple had been married for several years without a child. For the purpose of companionship, they bought a Rottweiler puppy, named it miley and loved her like a child.

The dog had access to all the rooms in the house. The puppy grew to become a large, beautiful dog and had on several occasions saved the couples from robbery. Miley was always faithful, loyal and defended its owners against many dangers.

Seven years later, the couple was blessed with the long awaited son. They were very happy with their son and naturally decreased the attention they had given to the dog. Miley felt neglected and began to get jealous of the baby.

One day the couple left the baby sleeping peacefully in his cradle and went to the terrace to prepare a roast. They were shocked as they were heading to the nursery and saw miley in the hallway with a bloody mouth, wagging its tail.

The dog's owner thought the worst, they pulled out weapons and began to beat the dog they had loved for many years... after so much beating, they killed the dog... then they rushed to the baby's room, there was blood everywhere and blood dripping from the baby's cot... they slowly walked to the cot and found a beheaded snake very close to the baby.
Miley killed the snake...
Then they realized they had butchered an innocent dog who was faithful to its death...

How often have we misjudged people without finding out facts.
How easy do you give up on those who are faithful to you?
What the heart sees is far greater than what the eye see...
Never judged people by thier looks, present situation and present life style...
Most of us judge people by what we expect them to be... without finding out who they really are...
Not everyone can relate to you exactly what they feel and how they feel about you!!

How I wish miley could talk... she would have expressed her love for her owners

The next time we are tempted to judge and condemn anyone remember the story of a faithful dog, MILEY.

Be Patient in Judgement

Adewale Monday, 4 June 2018

THE STORY OF ADÉGBÖRÒ L'OJA OBA, a Yoruba Adage

ADEGBORO left Ibadan for Lagos in search of greener pasture. He chose to be carrying loads (Alabaru) on his head at Oyingbo market to earn a living.*

Few years after, he bought a cart from his savings and this eased the pain of carrying loads on his head for commercial purposes. The Cart also increased his income and he was able to acquire 6 more of its kind which he rented out to others.

*Exactly 8 years in this cart pushing business, Adegboro bought a van which many called BOLEKAJA and learning how to drive, he handled the business by himself. 4 years into the Bolekaja business, Adegboro had been a proud owner of 6 Vans.*

Being a bona fide Ibadan son, (omo bibi ilu Ibadan) ADEGBORO built a magnificent building at OJA OBA where the Olubadan Palace was situated when it was time to put a roof on his head.

*Many people at this period approached Adegboro to show them the secret behind his success. He simply asked them if they could carry loads on their heads in the market to earn income (alabaru)? And their response had always been "NEVER".*

He too would spontaneously say *"ENI TI O LE SE ALABARU L'OYINGBO, KO LE SE BI ADEGBORO L'OJA OBA"* - this is a replica of the adage also in Yoruba land that says; "ÌSASÙN tabi IKOKO TI YIO J'ATA (OBE), IDI RE A KOKO GBONA". (A pot that wants to consume a palatable soup must have its bottom burnt or heated with fire first).

In Life, to endure is to achieve. No short cut is sustainable. Wealth is built over time in a small bit but in a persistent way!!!!!!
Our children must learn from this true life story. They must shun the get-rich-quick syndrome that's affecting most youths today, many have entered into traps of human traffickers, sold into sex slaves, drugs, prostitution, and what have you, in desperation for get-rich-quick green pastures. Today, many are still being auctioned for sale in LIBYA.

*Sit your children down and teach them the meaning of the popular poem by J.F. Odunjo:*

*ISE NI OOGUN ISE (Work is the antidote for poverty)*

Ise l’ogun ise
(Work is the antidote for poverty)

Mura s’ise ore mi
(Work hard, my friend)

Ise la fi n’deni giga
(Work/Labour is the major tool for elevation)

Bi a ko ba reni feyin ti
(If we do not have anyone to lean on)

Bi ole la’nri
(We appear indolent)

Bi a ko ba reni gbekele
(If we do not have anyone to support us)

A tera mo’se eni
(We simply work harder)

Iya re le lowo lowo
(Your mother might be rich)

Baba re le lesin lekan
(Your father may have a stable full of horses)

Bi o ba gbo’ju lewon
(If you rely on them)

O te tan ni mo so fun o
(You are close to shame and disgrace, I tell you)

Ohun ti a ko ba ji’ya fun,
(Whatever one does not work hard to earn)

Se kii le pe lowo;
(Usually does not last)

Ohun ti a ba fara sise fun,
(Whatever gain one seriously labours for)

Nii pe lowo eni.
(Usually lasts with one)

Apa lara
(Your arm is you relative )

Egunpa niyekan

(your elbow is your sibling)

B’aye ba n’fe o loni
(If the world loves you today)

Bi o ba lowo lowo
(If you have money)

Aye a ma fe o lola
(The world will still love you tomorrow)

Tabi ki o wa ni’po atata
(Or if you are in a prestigious position)

Aye a ma ye o si terin-terin
(The world will celebrate you with smiles)

Je k’o de’ni tin rago
(Wait till you become poor)

Aye a ma yinmu si o
(The world will grimace at you)

Eko si’nso ni d’oga
(Education also elevates one to higher positions)

Mura ki o ko dara dara
(Ensure that you acquire it well)

Bi o si r’opo eniyan
(And if you see a lot of people)

Ti won f’eko s’erin rinrin
(Making mockery of education with laughter)

Dakun ma f’ara we won
(Please do not emulate or keep their company)

Iya n’bo fun’omo ti ko gbon
(Suffering beckons for the unwise child)

Ekun n’be fun’omo to nsa kiri
(Tears are due for the truant child)

Ma f’owuro sere ore mi
(Do not toy with your early years)

Mura si’se ojo’nlo
(Work hard; time waits for no one).

THE STORY OF ADÉGBÖRÒ L'OJA OBA, a Yoruba Adage

Adewale Sunday, 13 May 2018

Lack of Trust Destroy Marriage

A wife suspected her husband of having sex with their house maid, then she set a trap for the husband by sending the house maid to the village for weekend without telling the husband.

At night, the husband told his usual story "Darling i want to go and watch wrestling in the sitting room" and he left.

The wife silently went to the house maid's room lying down on the bed naked without any light, and the door was open and someone join her on the bed without wasting time and without a word, he had sex with her.

After the fifth round she said, it's enough, i have caught u, so this is how you use to have sex with her, and you will do two round with me and tell me you are tired; fifth round now you are still demanding for more habi?

The gate man shouted and replied "AM SORRY MADAM I DON'T KNOW YOU ARE THE ONE, NO BE OGA DEY FUCK THE HOUSE MAID O, NA ME"

Madam shouted "EWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!", then the husband rushed in and caught them.

If you are the man or woman, what will you do?

Anyone that judge book by its cover will definitely buy wrong one.
Let learn to be patient, trust and investigate throughly before we judge people.

Moral Lesson:

Trust is one of the keys to happy home. Suspicion could bring disaster in marriage in every ramificationsh.

Lack of Trust Destroy Marriage

Adewale Monday, 7 May 2018

APC FAIL TO DELIVER THEIR PROMISES

It was very hard for people of Nigeria, petrol was at #87 per litter, our people in North were being killed, shoot and bomb on dialy basis, Internally Display Person number increase to over 300,000  now over 500,000 no physical or meaningful infrastructure; Lagos ibadan express way was a dead trap, Ogbomoso Oyo road can't be left out, Ilorin Niger road, and others with billions approved without no construction, electricity privatized, nearly everywhere blackout,
We cry for help, a slogan "change" become a hope,
Change promised people of Nigeria,
In 29 minutes presentation by Vice President aspirant of APC at Edo town hall meeting during compagn; He analysed all sectors how they would develop the country and take us to promise land.
I was happy and boosted, Nigerians don arrived. To me, professor, just 29 minutes, he solved all Nigeria problems.
But few people benefits, majority are suffering, Price of foods skyrocket with over 💯 increase without increase in salary, #45 was promised but today, it is #145, APC said subsidy is a scam and fraud in 2015 but today, they have paid over 4trillion naira for it. No good road, electricity is not stable. Min for Power, Fasola said in 2014 '" only 6months is required to stabilize Nigeria electricity by a serious government". Please, 3 years now, I don't see the impact. Several institution shutdown for years, worst part of it in Southwest, except Lagos, no development at grassroots/local government as a their governor's failed to conduct local government election for almost 8years.
Boko Haram is still killing, bombing and kidnapping our children, thereby discouraging education in some areas in the North.
Herdsmen killing is another civil war going now as people been killed daily in kogi, benue and some other parts with no proper and feasible action to stop it.
Our government have fail us.
People are not considerate, human being like us, our people been killed and they are saying we should be patient, government is trying, should we wait till they killed all Nigerians?
Obasanjo clear all debts but today, Nigeria domestic loan stand above 12trillion naira, for what project?

Our dear government, enough is enough:
STOP killing,
Revive our economy, redeem our image at international community,
Step down for youths,
It is our Time,
It impossible that only one person is best out of over 180 million people.
All we want is betterment of this country,
All we want is dividend of democracy,
All we want is eradication of poverty,
Good education
Conducive environment
Stable electricity
Good water
Good roads
Good infrastructure

My dear people, let wake up to our task, our efforts and support are required to succeed

APC FAIL TO DELIVER THEIR PROMISES

Adewale Saturday, 28 April 2018

Reply to President Buhari speech NIGERIA YOUTHS are too lazy

"Nigerian youths are lazy & uneducated. Always wanting free oil money" ~ PMB

ME: Sir, you are absolutely correct. One of the lazy Nigerian youths who is enjoying free oil money had an accident with the power bike he bought with free oil money not too long ago, and he was flown abroad for treatment with free oil money, then he hired a jet with free oil money from London to Abuja after his treatment.

Sir, I completely agree with you that the Nigerian youths are lazy and uneducated and always wanting free oil money. Their role models are in Aso Rock enjoying free oil money without even solving any problem for the country. When they are ill, they fly abroad for medical vacation with free oil money.

Why would anyone disagree with you that the Nigerian youths are uneducated? It's very obvious. That's why they don't even know their rights. They keep defending your ineptitude.

You enjoyed free education as a young man, but today the youths are deprived of basic education. You were a governor, a petroleum commissioner and ahead of states as a youth, but today, youths are on social media defending your failures.

Honestly, I agree with you that the Nigerian youths are lazy, that's why you ruled Nigeria as a youth and have also grabbed the job as an old man. The youths are too ignorant to even know the implication of your comments. They don't even know you and your fellow old men are doing jobs they should ordinarily be doing.

Sir, the most interesting aspect of this your truth is that you said it in a country where their government provides basic infrastructures, almost free education, free WiFi, free health care, almost free investment loans for their youths. While, in your own country, these lazy and uneducated youths, provide their own electricity, schools, security, roads, healthcare etc.. Yet, the indolent youths use their "free oil money" to buy mobile data to defend your ineptitude.

Sir, let me remind you that we have seen so many Nigerian youths who were almost useless in Nigeria, but when they cross over to the western world, they suddenly begin to excel in different fields of endeavor. What do you think is responsible for their positive output in the foreign land? Your guess is as good as mine, Sir- The difference is not farfetched. A responsible government plan for their youths and create enabling environment for the youths to be able to create wealth and contribute to National development. Can we say the same of your own country? Certainly Not! Instead, we have lazy, uneducated youths who would hang on telecommunication masts and electric cables to shout SAI BABA when you visit their states. I only wish they knew better.

Sir, Finally, let me ask you, Sir, apart from the free oil money we have been paying you since your days as a youth till date, what have you been able to make out for yourself on your own? Do you have thriving businesses that are providing employment for the Nigerian youths? Have you invented anything on your own? Sir, you can now see that this free oil money is what has kept you going for over 50 years. Perhaps this laziness is not limited to the youths alone, I guess some 75-year-old incompetent presidents are also lazy and love free oil money, that's why they want to remain in power till they are 80 years old. If we take away the free oil money we have been paying you and audit your life, are you sure you will have any worth, Sir?

Reply to President Buhari speech NIGERIA YOUTHS are too lazy

Adewale Thursday, 19 April 2018

Who Actually looted Nigeria

WHO ACTUALLY LOOTED NIGERIA FOR 16 YEARS?

Out of 24 APC governors today, 22 of them were members of the PDP that ruled for 16 years.

As if that is not enough 20 former PDP governors are now in APC and many of them with corruption cases, but PMB's corruption fight "no reach their side."

Do you also know that:
1. The first and current APC Senate President was in PDP?

2. The first APC Speaker of the  House of Representatives was also in PDP?

3. Three out of five former Speakers of the House of Representatives under PDP are now in APC?

3. A former PDP senate president is also in APC?

4. Two former national Chairmen of PDP are also now in APC?

5. Thousands of current APC  legislators at both state and national levels were in PDP?

6. Hundreds of  current APC ministers and commissioners today were in PDP?

7. Thousands of other former PDP leaders and members including former ministers,  legislators, commissioners, etc are now in APC?

Now who are the PDP members that APC keeps referring to that looted the nation's treasury for sixteen years?

Current APC Governors that Migrated from PDP:

1. Governor Ibikunle Amosun of Ogun State was a PDP Senator.

2. Governor Nasir El-Rufai of Kaduna State served as FCT minister under the PDP.

3. Governor Aminu Masari of Kastina State was a Former House of Representatives speaker under the PDP.

4. Governor Abubakar Bello of Niger State was a PDP Former Commissioner.

5. Governor Aminu Tambuwal of Sokoto was a Former PDP Speaker of the House of Representatives.

6. Governor Abdulfatah Ahmed of Kwara State was a Commissioner  and Governor under PDP.

7. Governor Badaru Abubakar of Jigawa State was in PDP.

8. Governor Simon Lalong of Plateau state was also in PDP.

9. Abdullahi Ganduje of Kano State was in PDP.

10. Governor Samuel Orthom of Benue State was a PDP Minister.

11. Governor Tanko Al-Makura of Nasarawa State was in PDP.

12. Governor Abubakar Bagudu of Kebbi State was a Former PDP Senator.

13. Governor Bindow Jubrilla of Adamawa State was a Former PDP Senator.

14. Governor Rochas Okorocha of Imo State was in PDP.

Former PDP Governors now in APC:
1. Aliyu Wammako -Sokoto
2. Rabiu Kwankwaso- Kano
3. Sai'du Dakingari -Kebbi
4 , Bukola Saraki - Kwara
5.  Murtal Nyako- Adamawa
6. Rotimi Amaechi -Rivers
7. Temiprye Sylva - Bayelsa
8 . Sullivan Chime- Enugu
9.  Obong Victor Attah- Akwa-Ibom
10. Chris Ngige - Anambra
11. Joshua Dariye -Plateau
12.  George Akume -Benue
13. Adamu Abdullahi - Nasarawa
14. Orji Uzor Kalu- Abia
15. Oserheimen Osunbor- Edo
16. Segun Oni -Ekiti
17. Alao Akala- Oyo
18. Danjuma Goje- Gombe
19. Olagunsoye Oyinlola -Osun
20. Garba Umar- Taraba

Anybody who says PDP members  looted the nation's treasury and are therefore corrupt is distorting the facts and therefore a shameless / barefaced liar, innately corrupt, fraudulent, self-centred, deceptive, wicked, broad day robber, oppressive and has no decency and humanity in them.

Are these the kind of people that should rule a nation?

Who Actually looted Nigeria

Adewale Wednesday, 4 April 2018